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Relationship/Marriage Recommendations

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Markman, Howard J, Stanley, Scott M., Blumberg, Susan L., (2001). This excellent, research-based book will give you and your partner specific tools that, if done, will help you have a GREAT marriage.

Markman, Howard J, Stanley, Scott M., Blumberg, Susan L., Jenkins, Natalie H., & Whiteley, Carol (2004). The same, basic information as in "Fighting For Your Marriage" with somewhat less detail. It's "12 Hour" format is easy to follow and is great for couples without a lot of time but who want information that gets to the point and helps improve any marriage.

Scott Stanley (2005). This is an excellent book, especially if you are struggling with commitment. Scott Stanley does a thorough job of describing the importance of commitment in healthy relationships and how to increase your commitment to your mate. Reading this book can really improve your marriage.

Books by John Gottman, PhD.
John Gottman is a well-respected researcher who has been studying marriage and other relationships for more than 30 years. He has a "love-lab" in Seattle and through his research, presents specific actions that people do who he calls "masters of marriage". He de-bunks myths that many of us believe regarding relationships. All of these books can do wonders for your relationship!

Gottman's groundbreaking book that started it all! Published in 1995, this book has timeless, tested, practical exercises and techniques to help you have a great relationship.

The "Great Date" books by David and Claudia Arp provide opportunities for couples to learn easy skills while having fun!

Haltzman, Scott (2005). Excellent books written specifically for men and women in a way that speaks to each of their individual differences. 

Michelle Weiner-Davis is known for her "Divorce Busting" books and clinic. The Divorce Remedy (2002) and Divorce Busting (1993) are two of her best. She focuses on solutions and believes that even couples on the brink can save their marriages.

This 304-page book is a winner. Michele Weiner-Davis is known for her tenacious belief in our ability to save the most tired marriage. First, she takes the reader through a thoughtful and deadly honest look at the myths about that wonderful life after divorce. Then, she breaks down myths that cause people to give up on their marriage. The book is mainly geared toward helping someone who is devastated by a spouse's declaration that the marriage is over. It gives concrete advice on how to gently and effectively woo your love back to you.

Janis Abrahms Spring's books regarding infidelity and forgiveness provide valuable insights for those struggling to deal with betrayal in marriage. They help both partners understand what often happens when there is infidelity and how to move forward.

The Beyond Affairs Network (BAN) web site is also a helpful resource for those trying to handle the challenges of a spouse's affair. Anne Bercht and her husband administer the site. Her book, My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me (2006) helps people who are struggling with infidelity.